Saturday, 1 August 2020
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Farewell, Sweet Oli


As our furfriends on Instagram and Facebook are already aware, our sweet senior Oli has crossed the rainbow bridge. The world will be darker without his light and love, but he is at peace and will be forever in our hearts. Thank you for loving him with us. Snuggle your furbabies a little closer, have fun together, and spoil them rotten.

Saying Farewell to our Sweet Senior Spotty

It was a beautiful fourteen years of love, laughter, companionship, and adventure. When I first met Oli as a young pup, he was not impressed with the wicked stepmother with whom he had to share his Daddy's attention. I, on the other hand, was a life-long cat lover who had never quite gotten over her childhood fear of dogs. Oh how the times have changed! Hahah! Oli was the first dog to steal my heart. Now I'm the neighbourhood's crazy dog lady.

Across cities and countries, highs and lows, good times and bad, Oli was a constant. A gentle giant, he was always quick with a smile and had the magical ability to rapidly charm whomever he met, no matter the circumstance. He was impossible to resist. My cheeky old chap. My soul mate.  

His mind was sharp to the very end, but the years had taken their toll and his old body was too weary to continue. His final days were filled with love, stroller rolls to his favourite sniffing spots, car rides, and a whole lot of treats. It was a barbecue bonanza of all his favourites, with he and Humphrey sniffing happily on their patio beds, wrapped in warm blankies against the winter chill. 

A big rainbow arched across the sky over our neighbourhood on the morning that Oli passed. It was fate telling us that it was time. He crossed the rainbow bridge with his family at his side, Humphrey included. A lipstick kiss from Momma on his cheek, wearing one of his shirt collars and bow ties from Daddy, and left us with a homemade blanket to keep him wrapped in love until his cremation. 

Creating Memories, Mementos, and More

There are a few special projects that I’m very glad I did when Oli was younger as well as in his final few months. When Tiger fell rapidly ill, we were left with some regrets for things we never got to do. That inspired some changes with Oli and Humphrey that we carry going forward.

Making Memories and Enjoying Time Together

We've been living our life fuller these last few months. Understanding that time is precious, for people and pets, and how quickly things can change. We have so many beautiful memories with the boys. It was very special that he got to spend some time with my parents this year (he loved their generosity with sneaky snacks!) and that we did a few road trips to favourite places before COVID and the lockdown. He got to sniff his old beachesroll his old trails, and explore a few new places, too. Those memories are particularly precious. 

Lockdown gifted us family time together at home. We got to quietly celebrate a final Easter and a final birthday in our family bubble. Roadies were out, but stroller rolls were in. I even took him running a few times with the stroller so that he could feel the wind in his fur! Old momma pushing Oli was a pretty slow sad excuse for a car ride, but he still had the biggest grin. Worth every moment. Lockdown restrictions finally lifting let us get in a final family day at the beach, too.  He and Humphrey ate fish and chips with their Dad, lay on blankets in the sun, and smelled all the good smells one last time together.

Creative Keepsakes

Tucked away safely in our mementos are Oli's original clay paw prints and my needle-felted fur-filled heart. They’re both easy crafts, although paw prints require a little patience (and plenty of treats!) and needle felting requires special materials. I recently took new sets of clay paw prints for both Oli and Humphrey so that I could have spares. I have a very special project planned for them. I also took some special ink paw prints of both boys and will share that DIY project here on the blog at some future stage.

Furfamily Photos

One of the easiest and most accessible creative activities for you and your pets is to take more photos. I regretted immensely not having more photos with Tiger, especially of Tiger and I together. I have very few photos with me actually in them (I dislike being in front of the camera), but have gotten a little better about asking hubby to take a snap or two with me and the boys. Of course, that means he's wielding the camera. During my parent's recent visit we were lucky enough to actually get a few precious photos with the whole furfamily. Just casual photos as the arrival of COVID cut short their trip and our plans for an actual posed family photo shoot, but these are still absolute treasures.

If you follow us on Instagram and have seen our stories, you may have seen me occasionally pop up in a selfie with the dogs as well. I'm not a fan of selfies, but I make an exception for pictures with the dogs. My phone is full of dog photos. Haha!  Make time to capture moments and memories through all the stages of your life together. And enjoy the outtakes and bloopers along the way!

As much as my heart hurt, I’m also glad that I have a few final photos of Oli. I learned from Tiger's loss how much a few final photos helped with the grieving process. Candids of him relaxing, sniffing the barbecue bonanza, watching me make final batches of his favourite gummies, jerky, and other treats, close-ups of his beautiful paws and sweet snozzle. I haven't been able to bring myself to edit those yet, but the raw files are sitting in a folder for when I'm ready.

With Love and Gratitude

Much love from our furfamily to you and yours, and a most sincere thank you for the love, likes, shares, and well-wishes you’ve given to Oli over the years. He is the original DIY dog and his legacy will live on here on the blog, in Humphrey, and in our hearts.

“Time flies over us, but leaves its shadow behind.” - Nathaniel Hawthorne 🖤 And what a big beautiful shadow you cast indeed, Oli. Looming large in our hearts, living on in our memories.  Good night, sweet prince. I'll see you in my dreams.

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